What is your favorite hobby or pastime?

What is my favorite pastime or hobby, if you had asked me earlier! – I would have replied that I didn’t have time for myself. 

All I need is my bed so I can go to sleep anytime I want.

And, like me, it could be you as well—yes, you are the one reading.👩🏻‍💻🙃

Basically in this big hustle of looking for achievements whether it be in our careers or our studies; we really forget what we truly enjoy doing in this.

Correct?

I am, without a doubt. 

And we have lost millions in order to continue to be the victors, or at least the runners-up!

However, I just took the first step in creating my life again (BASICALLY – what to do when). 

Initially, I pulled out a pen and notebook and began listing my passions!

After that, I set aside a specific period of time each day to spend a few minutes doing what I enjoy.

~ Though it only lasted a few minutes, it really caused me to experience so many positive changes that I gradually became devoted to it, and even my routine was unaffected!

Spending a few minutes in nature and writing down everything that comes to me is my favorite activity since it helps me to overcome pessimism and cultivate good wellbeing. 

And that inspiration only arises when you discover something you truly enjoy doing and dedicate a few minutes each day to it! 

What are you waiting for? 

Should I bring you a pen to list down – what you actually love and how you can continue that!

Hey! Even phones have the option of NOTES; at the very least, write down your passions. 

Don’t forget to give me credit, 😉

What would you do if you lost all your possessions?

We all want both basic needs and the luxuries, which can include having the newest iPhone or iPod, or, as I like to say, the latest shades from Tommy Hilfiger!

As a result, everyone wants to make as much money as they can, and in order to do that, both hard and smart work are important.

But what if we suddenly lost everything we owned? Have you considered that?

Personally, I think that every moment is an opportunity to start over and show ourselves.

What I’m trying to imply is that losing everything at once won’t eliminate our innate ability to earn money; in fact, We can get stronger and stronger over time to make twice as much as we lost!

In other words, losing everything at once cannot break us in pieces; rather, it can give us the strength to improve both intellectually and physically and to rise to the task of double what has been lost.

Yes, I agree. Some may argue that in real life, this isn’t possible. In fact, some may even argue that losing something truly breaks us, causing us to become depressed and lose the ability to work hard and earn it again.

All right. Cry on the first day, the second day, and, well, for a week as well!

Then what?

Have you considered?

~ Even eyes will remark, “I’m swollen now, and I don’t have the energy to cry!”

Well, then WHAT !!!

Just sit and EAT!

Or

Just sir and Feel demotivated!

Some things happens just to make us more mature and look in the best way (that we haven’t yet!)

Hence, we must do it the BEST – whatever possible. Why not do it joyfully from the first day rather than shedding tears all week? 

Think ?

Your Comments can shed some more light and I can also think from your viewpoint! 🙏🏼 

What skill would you like to learn?

In this era of artificial intelligence, AI is assisting us in every way, from selecting a bag to go with an outfit to assisting with scheduling a hair salon appointment.

I would respond that I would like to learn that specific set of skills – that AI tool will suggest to me (based on my résumé) to help me advance more quickly.

Without a doubt, AI tools won’t always give us the right advice, but they can at least assist us in taking the initial step. For the rest, we may conduct our own research using various websites and acquire the greatest skills for our personal development.

How I would begin: Let me explain!

– As I have to live well with those around me, I will first list all of my shortcomings, including my life skills sets on both a professional and personal level.

– Second, I would have my CV, which would list all of my prior abilities. All I’ll have to do is to put my resume into the AI tool and define my desired future self—whatever AI tool will suggest the relevant skills needed for my future growth.

– Finally, using the AI tool’s suggestions, I will repeat my research (cross-checking), create a to-do list for myself, and then accomplish everything.

Therefore, I would say that in an AI-driven environment, we need to think, analyze, and begin using technology for our own betterment.

Describe your dream chocolate bar.

Okay, but don’t be surprised if it sounds like a personality.

It’s the kind of chocolate bar that doesn’t scream for attention,

But the moment you take one bite,

You go,

“Oh… this feels like home.”

🌰 It’s simple on the outside —

Maybe just soft chocolate colour!

But inside?

A calm, creamy layer.

Nothing dramatic.

Just… peace.

~ With a little crunch, because I love when life surprises me — gently.

🍯 The taste?

Bittersweet, like something that understands silence. And just a whisper of rose or cardamom — Because I still believe sweetness should never be loud.

💬 And if it could talk?

It would probably say something like:

“You’re doing okay. You don’t need to rush. You don’t have to be perfect. Just be real.”

Which, honestly, is also what I’d say if we were having a cup of tea together right now.

And if you’ve been looking for that kind of soft space —

you just found one.

📩 I’m here if you ever want to talk.

👉 Connect with me on LinkedIn

Do you remember your favorite book from childhood?

Mine was The Alchemist — that beautiful tale about following your dreams, signs from the universe, and the quiet magic of trusting yourself.

As a child, I believed anything was possible.

But somewhere along the way, I got busy collecting degrees.

🎓 B.Tech

🎓 M.Tech

👩🏻‍🏫 Even taught students with all my heart…

And yet one day, I found myself just sitting there, wondering —

“Now what?”

Everything shifted when I stopped chasing…

And started building — slowly, gently, with clarity.

🌸 I completed my Doctorate with 91% ~ 💻 While working on digital transformation projects at National Informatics Centre, Delhi (India).

And still… I realized something important:

Even smart, hardworking people often feel stuck — quietly, silently, behind a smile.

That’s why I now help others.

Not with pressure. Not with programs.

But softly — the way I wish someone had helped me.

If you’ve been feeling:

💭 “What now?”

💭 “Why am I not moving forward?”

💭 “Will I ever feel confident again?”

Then maybe this little post is your sign. 🌼

I’m not a coach. I’m just someone who understands.

📩 DM me anytime — no forms, no pressure, just a real, kind conversation.

Let’s talk. You’re not alone.

📖 P.S. That little girl who loved The Alchemist?

She finally wrote her own story.

And maybe…

yours is waiting too. 💫

Tap my profile or just DM me.

Let’s find your next chapter — together. 🤍

👉 @Dr. Anshu Sharma

If you could permanently ban a word from general usage, which one would it be? Why?

Every word has a distinct meaning, and how they are used is probably situation-specific as well.

In my opinion, permanently banning a word would actually indicate a bad thing.

Hey, I’m not suggesting that every negative word is appropriate to use; rather, I’m stating that depending on the circumstance, each person should use different words.

Correct?

Therefore, a word being permanently banned is not a solution to any issue!

Then what should be banned !?

If I were to discuss a permanent ban, it would be not to belittle or harm someone.

However, we are all fallible human beings, and some negative things can happen anytime, but yeah ~ purposefully doing anything wrong can cause significant harm to others and cannot be even forgotten easily!

~ just stay beautiful – think positive – so that no negative thing can grasp you ! 💭

This one was a little brief, but I loved providing these insightful responses, and simply ♥️

What do you think ?

What is the biggest challenge you will face in the next six months?

You ask, “In the next six months?” 😕 

~ I’m not sure how this journey will go the next day🫣! 

but it’s clear that I know what my goals are, how to reach them, etc.

Indeed, a list of challenges arises along with the targets or goals. 

…Beginning with the first, the difficulty of adhering to the routine—the ideal one, I say..!

…Then comes the topic of distractions, which we should avoid, along with the bad thoughts, of course! 🫣. 

Then…Next, what comes next?

?

I believe that if I started writing everything down, I would become more demanding rather than accepting full responsibility for the challenges life presents! 

We must remember that challenges might appear out of the blue, but with perseverance, commitment, and most importantly, optimism, we can overcome even the most challenging challenges! 

Indeed, I am moving toward my goals with today’s sunrise 🌅 (without considering any obstacles, just working on my own). 

It is entirely up to us to decide what we truly want to accomplish, whether it be to think about the challenges or to pursue our own job! 

Hey..Are you following a similar path? or want to make a change? 💭👀

Who are your favorite people to be around?

Favourite people ? 👀

The favourite people, in my opinion, are those who genuinely like our conversations, stick by us through all of our highs and lows, and with whom we want to spend hours simply conversing.

However, in this harsh reality of life, where we are all dealing with such negative vibes that we sometimes just yell out minor offenses to the other person!

Right ?

Not negative but …I believe we are at a point where we should stop wishing for our favorite people because doing so will create expectations, and when that person fails to meet those expectations, we will only blame them and look for another favorite. …Instead, helping people without expecting anything in return, whether it makes them feel good or bad for us, is a true way to find favourite act of happiness to live the best life.

Then, when our karma fills our lives with the Almighty’s favorite wish, we won’t experience regret and instead feel happier inside.

What do you think ?

Tell us about your favorite pair of shoes, and where they’ve taken you.

Hey… Let me say this: Cinderella shoes!🫣 “-”

…but I am not in a fairy tale, therefore allow me to express my opinions in the real world.

I used to only wear comfortable shoes in my early years, regardless of whether they went with my dress style… 🤭🙈!

As time goes on, though, now – my mind first considers the type of attire I’m wearing and then matches it with the appropriate shoe.

The question here is, “What are my favorite shoes and where have they taken me?”

The answer is already concealed within the lines above. 🤭

Share one of the best gifts you’ve ever received.

Without a doubt, every present we get is a manifestation of someone else’s blessings.

Do you agree with?

If I had to respond by sharing one of the greatest gifts I have ever received, I would simply reiterate that every gift, no matter how big or small, is equally desirable.

The most important thing is that ~ I am living my life, which is why I am getting gifts…If life doesn’t exist, there won’t be any pleasant outcomes or leisure activities as well as a lot more.

Thus, the primary thankful I would just be here for life. Hey, but not just for me…We should all be grateful for that.

….It’s not that there aren’t hardships or hard labor; rather, in doing so, we are a part of a learning process that benefits us in every manner.

What are your thoughts?